Wrong! Men don’t always think like that, sisters!
If you’ve been confused or frustrated by the fact that high-quality men don’t initiate conversations with you, let me help a sister out and share 3 tantalizing tips that will turn you into a man magnet and have men approaching you everywhere you go.
1. Your body language must show that you are available.
I’ve heard from many men that they are intimidated in the presence of a beautiful woman. You’d never think that these attractive, successful men are afraid to walk up to you and say hello just by looking at them, but they are. Why? Because they’ve been shut down by so many sisters in the past. They don’t like rejection and will avoid it like the plague!
According to the science of attraction, men (and women) find people with available body language–smiling, uncrossed arms and legs, and looking up–the most attractive.
For example, put away your smartphone when you’re in line at the grocery store and stop using your Michael Kors bag as a body shield. These props can make a man think you’re too busy or just not interested.
2. Make the first move
You don’t have to chase a man, sisters, but you do have to make the first move.
One way you can make the first move is to lean in and give LOTS of eye contact. Don’t forget to smile too! Mean mugging isn’t attractive.
If the thought of smiling and saying hello to a good looking man makes you want to run away and hide, you have some limiting beliefs about men, yourself, and dating that are getting in your way. For example, some of the women I work with think that flirting is “too aggressive.” They’ve been taught to never pursue a man but as a result of these thoughts, they end up running the opposite direction when a man seems interested in them.
3. Take advantage of the moment
You have to attract a man’s attention to you while you can. Dr. Helen Fisher, an expert in the science of love, says we people can tell in one second–ONE SECOND–whether or not someone is attractive!
You can’t put all the responsibility on God, fate, or “if it’s meant to be” types of thoughts. You also can’t make the excuse that if he’s interested he’ll overlook all of your “don’t come over here, what are you looking at, I hope you don’t really notice me” signals and talk to you anyway.
If you’re in the presence of an attractive, single man you have to flirt to let him know you’re interested while he’s still there.
You’ll have more good men approaching you if you’ll change your body language, be willing to initiate and seize the moment!
Showing posts with label Relationship Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship Tips. Show all posts
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
10 hot tips for keeping strong long distance relationship
A long distance relationship isn’t for the weak or faint of heart,it takes time,loyalty,and a whole lot of chocolate.
You should probably have a bit of a chat about this giant elephant of a commitment before you decide to do it. First and foremost, figure out if this person is actually worth it, if you aren't sure...probably not.
And once you do, establish how the whole operation is going to go down. How often will you visit each other? Where is this relationship going? Is the long distance permanent or temporary? What level of commitment will you have? It's different for every couple, but you can't build a house without some foundation, dammit!
Trust that you aren’t crazy:
Ok, you are a little crazy, but not any more than usual. They’ll be some crying and moments of weakness where you think that this whole deal totally sucks and you'll find yourself with ice cream, in bed, weeping. The missing is the worst part, ugh. You’ll survive & you're totally normal.
Hang out in your hood:
Wallowing in self pity while watching Love Actually can be cathartic but it's probably not a great everyday occurrence. The more active you are, the quicker the time goes. So let your friends be your friends and pack away those sweatpants.
Be a confident queen bee:
Do you think the queen of all bees has time worry about the men in her hive messaging her back while they’re making honey? No, she’s secure enough to know they are hard at work providing and protecting her sweet ass. Sometimes someone doesn't communicate because they actually do forget, have lost connection, or are honestly busy. Give your partner some leeway. And remember how fucking awesome you are!
Don't be a cheater:
Look, people make mistakes, that's not what this is about. But, if you or your partner continue to make 'mistakes' then you should question why you are in this relationship in the first place. Long distance is for the committed.
Little achievements:
Halfway, 3 more sleeps, going for a weekend away. Count that shit down!
Download as many tools for communication as possible:
We live in a world where we can talk every day, we're like the Jetsons! Try - Whatsapp, Skype, Tango, sms, Facebook chat, Mixt, and the actual telephone. So send messages and chat often, none of this nonsense about talking too much. You find what works for you and do it.
Make dates to hang out online:
Schedule times where you can virtually be together. Make the same meal and eat it together with a video chat. Or watch a movie at the same time while smsing. Knowing the other person is there to talk to makes it feel like you are still doing the little things together too.
Sexting:
Sexting, phone sex, or any type of sexual communication is what’s separating your relationship from just being friends. Plus, pushing your comfort zone in a safe space can bring your 'in person' sexy time to another level of trust and awareness.
plz post your comment below
You should probably have a bit of a chat about this giant elephant of a commitment before you decide to do it. First and foremost, figure out if this person is actually worth it, if you aren't sure...probably not.
And once you do, establish how the whole operation is going to go down. How often will you visit each other? Where is this relationship going? Is the long distance permanent or temporary? What level of commitment will you have? It's different for every couple, but you can't build a house without some foundation, dammit!
Trust that you aren’t crazy:
Ok, you are a little crazy, but not any more than usual. They’ll be some crying and moments of weakness where you think that this whole deal totally sucks and you'll find yourself with ice cream, in bed, weeping. The missing is the worst part, ugh. You’ll survive & you're totally normal.
Hang out in your hood:
Wallowing in self pity while watching Love Actually can be cathartic but it's probably not a great everyday occurrence. The more active you are, the quicker the time goes. So let your friends be your friends and pack away those sweatpants.
Be a confident queen bee:
Do you think the queen of all bees has time worry about the men in her hive messaging her back while they’re making honey? No, she’s secure enough to know they are hard at work providing and protecting her sweet ass. Sometimes someone doesn't communicate because they actually do forget, have lost connection, or are honestly busy. Give your partner some leeway. And remember how fucking awesome you are!
Don't be a cheater:
Look, people make mistakes, that's not what this is about. But, if you or your partner continue to make 'mistakes' then you should question why you are in this relationship in the first place. Long distance is for the committed.
Little achievements:
Halfway, 3 more sleeps, going for a weekend away. Count that shit down!
Download as many tools for communication as possible:
We live in a world where we can talk every day, we're like the Jetsons! Try - Whatsapp, Skype, Tango, sms, Facebook chat, Mixt, and the actual telephone. So send messages and chat often, none of this nonsense about talking too much. You find what works for you and do it.
Make dates to hang out online:
Schedule times where you can virtually be together. Make the same meal and eat it together with a video chat. Or watch a movie at the same time while smsing. Knowing the other person is there to talk to makes it feel like you are still doing the little things together too.
Sexting:
Sexting, phone sex, or any type of sexual communication is what’s separating your relationship from just being friends. Plus, pushing your comfort zone in a safe space can bring your 'in person' sexy time to another level of trust and awareness.
plz post your comment below
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
TIPS FOR SINGLE LADIES
◆ You don't need to expose your boobs or dress half naked
to get the attention of men. Just be natural. Dress normal;
the right man will locate you.
◆ Do not be desperate to marry. It will make you marry the
wrong person. Take your time to choose wisely.
◆ When you fall in love, do not use your heart alone. Use your
brain as well. Follow your heart but please carry your brains
too.
◆ Your body is for your husband only; it is not for the general
public. Stop having s*x with anybody that comes your way
because you are searching for a husband. S*x is not a good
criterion for searching for a life partner.
◆ Control your anger; don't be hot tempered if you want to
have a happy married life.
◆ Having many boyfriends does not make you a big big girl;
it only makes you a public bitch.
◆ You don't need to make yourself a slave to a man because
you want him to marry you; washing his boxers, cooking for
him and cleaning his house are good, but do them for the
sake of love and not because you want him to marry you.
Doing all those chores will not stop him from dumping you.
Only do it after marriage.
◆ Do not try to use pregnancy to tie down a man. Guys are
wise now. That method does not work again. He will deny
the pregnancy and dump you if he doesn't love you.
◆ Try not to play too hard to get to all guys; you may miss
your right partner.
◆ Trust in God. The sky will be your starting point.
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